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“He’s coming home. Meet him at the door with nothing on.” Christina Milian had the right idea in her song, “Dip It Low.” You know the song that’s all about making your man want you and crave you as he should. Whether you’ve been in a long-term relationship or not, you should always try new things to keep the spark. Even if you think your relationship is going great and your man isn’t going anywhere, that’s no reason to get complacent between the sheets. Sure you may still do the do, but if the fireworks aren’t poppin’ anymore like they used to it’s time to try something new.

Here are some ways to spice things up with bae:

Role Play

After you’ve been together for a while, it’s very easy to get use to the same old same old. So why not take it back to the beginning when you two first met and pretend like you just met. Meet him at a bar and approach him as if you were a stranger. That’s your man right? It shouldn’t be too hard to talk dirty to him or approach him like you would if he was someone that you were attracted to. Sounds corny? Then try dressing up in a costume and approach him that way. Whatever it is, have fun with it and be creative.


Try new positions 

If you are not into acting, then something as simple as trying a new position should do the trick. A reverse cowgirl might be all you need to keep the spark. There are plenty of books and websites that can instruct you on new positions and how to execute them. Just a heads up, you might want to stretch before you try them 😉

Try new places 

Who said sex can only take place in the bedroom? Believe it or not, some of the best sex experiences are the ones that don’t happen in the bedroom. Try having sex in another room of your house or his house if you live separately. Public places like a move theater, balcony (this might sound crazy) but in your yard are also a great way to keep your sex life spontaneous. If having sex in public is too risky for you, then booking a room at a hotel is perfect! As long as it’s not your house or any normal place that you would do the do, then a new place might be all the excitement you need.

Initiate Sex 

Nothing is sexier to a man than when a woman takes charge, especially if he isn’t use to you coming on to him. If you’re the shy type now is the time to break out of your shell and shock him. When a woman is confident and bold sexually, it makes a man feel wanted and desired. So when you get home leave your shyness at the door and surprise him, he won’t be able to keep his hands off you.

Sext him 

Sexting is another way to keep the spark, especially if this is something that you normally don’t do. If you really want to be spontaneous and sexy, send him a sexy pic while he’s at work or while he’s out with his boys. Not only will he be so excited to get home from a long day from work, but if he’s out with his boys he might even cut his night short and come running home to you. All he will be focused on is what will be waiting for him when he gets home. So be ready to greet him when he walks through the door.

Don’t hesiitate to please your bae. Make him feel like he’s the luckiest man in the world, all while he makes you feel like you are the most beautiful sexiest woman in the world. So this weekend or any day for that matter; surprise him. Meet at the door with nothing on. Think of it this way, the more spontaneous you are the more successful the deed will be. Because honestly who doesn’t want some good vitamin D? Said no woman ever!


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